Honey Jar Sweetening Spell
This type of spell has been around for a long time. It’s usually used to encourage people to be kinder to you as well as taking a liking to you (romantic or platonic), without outright forcing them into a friendship/relationship. It’s also quite useful for smoothing over arguments between yourself and loved ones. The materials are easy to obtain, though the spell’s bit detailed.
- A glass jar of honey with a metal lid
- A piece of parchment paper or brown paper from a bag
- Magnets (two to bring you closer to a person)
- Some sugar, if you like, for extra sweetness
- Incense (any)
- A tool for carving
- A saucer or small tray, to catch dripping wax
- Essential oil in an appropriate scent for your desired result — sensual patchouli or red sandalwood for passion, lavender for love, cinnamon for money and success, mint for cooling anger, etc.
Start by drawing a circle on the paper. Carefully tear (don’t cut) the edges, so you have a round piece of paper. Write the person’s full name on it. Turn the paper 90 degrees and write your own name on top of theirs, covering it.
Think of a simple phrase that sums up what you want to happen and write it around the edges of the paper over and over without lifting the pen, so it’s in an unbroken line. “Pleasenoticeme-noticeme-noticeme,” or “showkindness-showkindess,” “let’sforgive-let’sforgive,” etc.
Light the incense, and enjoy the aroma. Open the jar of honey and taste a little bit, then say:
“As this honey is sweet to taste, so I hope (name) may be sweet on me.”
Put the open jar on a saucer. Fold the paper with the names toward you. Fold it three times. Pour a little sugar in the jar. Drop the paper in. If you are using two magnets, they should be joined. Cap the jar. Inscribe the candle with the person’s name and your intent, using a nail, toothpick or thumb tack. Anoint the candle with the oil. Put the candle on top of the jar, light it and allow it to burn itself out (keep an eye on it for safety reasons).
Inscribe a fresh candle and repeat this every Monday until successful. Once temporary situations are resolved, bury the jar in your backyard. If you don’t have a back yard, bury it in a planter with soil.
See also: A Spell to Help Someone Think of You